Comforting Things To Say

What to say and do in tough times by hallmark staff on october 8 2016 when someone we know suffers a loss or is going through a difficult situation we re often not sure what to say.

Comforting things to say. Grief is powerful heavy complex but also delicate and unique to each individual. Offer in a subtle way and with a tone of voice that can calm your girlfriend. Great things to do and say i like them all and wish i had heard even one of them from my husband s family after my beloved brother tragically ended his life nearly three months ago.

To say you are not the only one can appear insensitive and as if you are minimizing the suffering of the sufferer. Much of the difficulty in writing words of condolence is the fear of unwittingly saying something wrong careless or possibly even hurtful. If someone has been working hard to drop pounds she will appreciate the opportunity to discuss the change.

To say you are not alone in this has a feel of compassion and understanding. Hopefully she will feel that there is someone who understands and appreciates her. A message of encouraging words for family of sick person like this demonstrates that you are interested in comforting your friend even though you can t change the situation.

That is why the words you choose to put in your card are so important. When people try to console someone who suffers from anxiety their intentions are often well meaning but ultimately useless. Offer something that will make your girlfriend feels comfortable and feels better.

Suggestions like just be happy or don t worry you ll be fine may seem innocent enough but to someone who feels like they are barely keeping their head above water these seemingly harmless statements can often make them feel even more isolated. 03 he will get better soon. Whoa you look so great sounds like a compliment looks like a compliment smells like a compliment but it implies the opposite you used to not look great.